Tuesday, October 14, 2003

So I have a decision to make, and granted its probably not a big deal to anyone reading this but it is relatively big for me. Okay, so let me give you a little background first...

I started dating Amy 10 months ago, she was in her final semester of college (I graduate in May of 2004) and worked together. Spring semester was pretty damn wonderful. We saw each other every day, even if it was only for a few minutes or only at work, we still saw each other every day. This summer she moved four hours away, which is fine, I supported her move 100% because it would allow her freedom from her family. We feel that the foundation of our relationship is strong so we both feel it will last the strain of distance and time (it helps that we talk all of the time, via cell phones). I've been to see her several times since she's moved and she's been down a few times. However, I haven't seen her for five weeks now and I might have the opportunity to drive up tomorrow night.

My responsibilities for tomorrow.... Quantum exam in the morning, Mom is going to drive across the state sometime in the middle of the day to pick up her dog, Computational class in the afternoon, work through afternoon until 6, then I'm supposed to help teach a golf class from 6 to 7, then get a golf lesson from 7 to 8.

The reason I might have an opportunity to see Amy tomorrow is that she finally doesn't have any major family responisbilities this week(her sister, niece and nephew are driving up to see her on Friday, but I don't consider that major). So if everything works out perfectly time-wise tomorrow and I ditch the golf thing, I could be on the road between 6 and 6:30 and be at Amy's house just in time to go to fall asleep with her. Then Thursday, she'll have to get up and go to work first thing in the morning, (I would spend the day doing homework at her apartment) but then we'll have the whole afternoon and evening to spend together. Friday, I would get up and leave with her when she goes to work and drive home. I can't miss class on Friday, plus it would not be good for her sister to see me there.

So I guess my question here is, would all of the fuss be worth it for me to spend a few hours alone with my love, or should I wait until we can spend an entire weekend together or a few full days together? I want to say yes, but apparently my opinion is biased. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

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