I kind of have a date tonight with a girl I'll call Phil. She is an ex of an ex. When we see each other out, we flirt, we've been doing so for years. We lost track of each other last year because she moved. She is now back in town. We have been talking about getting together for the last couple of weeks but things keep coming up in both of our worlds. We have tentative plans, based on work schedules, to get together for dinner and pool tonight. We shall see if that happens.